The Sigma sisters organize a meeting to determine who will be a ""big sister"" to each of the pledges. The girls feel that this is a good way to get to know each other a little better. The big sisters start exchanging secret gifts among the little sisters. Amanda and Candace are starting to get to know one another a lot more since they started opening up to each other. Jordan's boyfriend, Justin, thinks that Jordan has too many things going on in her life that are more important than their relationship. They both agree that they should break up. Jordan goes to Justin's house to return some of his things, and he gives her a card he claims he had written before they broke up. The girls refuse to let Jordan read the card, in fear that it will make her feel bad, and Jordan agrees. Amanda rips up the card because she thinks that it would be better for her. Amanda reveals that her big sis is Pauli. Dede's big sis is Jesse, Mara's big sis is Mara, Jessica has Katie, Candace has Stacey, and Jord